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Judy & Joyce
Swing lifestyles where the wife swings while her husband chooses to remain
monogamous are certainly nothing new to the lifestyle. The benefits of
this particular minority within a minority lifestyle continued to be
under-reported, though, even by organizations, clubs and publications
devoted to the swing set.
Judy, 21, blonde and beautiful resident of Phoenix, Az, is the daughter of
a free-thinking mother of 45 who believes that the sensuality and
sexuality of a woman should not be confined by fear, sacrifice or
marriage.
Joyce and Rob, 45 and 49, Judy's parents, have been married "without
hostilities" for nearly thirty years. Joyce, expressing her opinions to
the writer, says, "To put it bluntly, I enjoy sex. I like being fucked. I
like
it, too, when men have the courage to let ME be in charge. Sometimes I
want to ride at the top, start AND finish when I feel like it...and go on
to the next pleasure. And it takes a real man to understand and accept
THAT!" When I was 30, my steady lover was 21; at 40, he was 23; now, when
I'm 45, my on-going lover is 21 again. And I'm married to the same
faithful, loving, sharing, understanding husband for all those years. A
husband truthful enough to admit that he appreciates other men sexually
pleasing me."
Joyce's husband, Rob, encourages his wife's activities. "If she wasn't
having sex outside our marriage, she (Joyce) would be boring, unbearable
to live with," he says. "You see, it's the nature of the female of any
species to seek change, to courageously explore taboo areas, to address
truth. Joyce and our daughter Judy both believe that the female--married
or single-should be free to have sex with whoever they want. And I
agree with them. "Besides," says Rob, "when Joyce tells me how much she
loves me for accepting her as she is, appreciating her naturalness, her
wants and needs, I know she really means it. I mean, if she refuses to lie
about a thing like her having 'great quantities of wholesome sex with a
younger man,' why would she lie about loving me? You see, I trust
her--completely, now. She tells me everything...even if I don't want to
hear it....I certainly don't want her to stop her extramarital sex and
start hating me instead."
"Rob helps me pick out the most sexy clothes to wear, so Dave'll (her 21
year old lover) keep coming back for more of me," Joyce says. "Rob picked
out this great mini I'm wearing, the panties from 'Victoria's.'" The
outfit on the mid-forties lady is almost unbearably sexy to behold. "Rob
invites Dave over for drinks, then respectfully requests that Dave fuck me
into contentment. After the sex, we all three get together and discuss how
we can improve our (Joyce and Dave's) future 'taboo' sex. About a week
ago, the three of us
(Rob, Dave, Joyce) went to this lake up North. I stood legs spread wide,
me facing, arms up against a tree. Dave pulled my shorts down, let his
drop to the sand, and fucked me from behind, both of us standing. As Dave
was fucking me, my sweet husband (Rob) telling him to 'drive it deeper,
deeper, all the way into my belly,' I looked to my side and saw these two
young couples-white people--staring at us from about 50 feet away. They
were walking in our direction. I thought they were going to complain or
something, seeing this Anglo woman getting fucked by a black cock right
there in the open. Our shorts still around our ankles. They stopped
walking about 10 feet from us, Dave still busy fucking me, Rob not even
noticing
them. 'Hey, I'd like some of THAT,' one of the women said. 'Who wouldn't'
the other girl replied,
looking straight at Dave's large, black cock sliding in and out of me.
They watched us until Dave shot his hot cum deep inside me, pulled his
shorts up, stuck a handkerchief between my legs, and pulled my own shorts
back around my waist. 'Why the handkerchief?' one of the guys asked Rob.
'Because I don't want my wife to lose any of his cum,' Rob replied. 'Dave
worked hard to get his cum inside my wife and I don't want any seeping out
of her, being wasted.' How sweet of my husband, don't you think?!
"It's an open thing without hurt or hate or jealousy...just pleasure. Mine
in receiving, Dave's in giving and Rob's in sharing," Joyce continues. Of
course, my sex with Rob is GREAT, too, I have to add." Joyce puts on a
video of her and husband having sex in the forest. Rob massages her feet,
cuddles her, praises her for her courage and feminism, and makes
passionate, long -lasting love to her. "What couple married thirty
years are that passionate?" she asks. The video serves as proof of the
couple's beliefs . "I understand and encourage Joyce to take other lovers
because I know she requires and enjoys that," says Rob to the writer.
"I'm perfectly satisfied with Joyce as my only sex partner, however. I do
not WANT to have sex with
other women. And I'm truthful. Just accepting of the natural instincts and
needs of the female. Do I love my wife right on through her
solo-swinging?? More than you can believe, friend. I'd fight to the end to
keep her and her lifestyle, you bet." "He doesn't have to worry," Joyce
laughs. "I love him more now than ever."
Joyce and Rob attend lifestyle events together, most of the time, but only
Joyce accepts other partners there, Rob usually just spending his time
making new friends while his wife, Joyce, finds fulfillment
with multiple, willing males attending. Judy, the couple's only daughter,
is well-aware of her parent's lifestyle: "My parents explained the
lifestyle to me when I was a child," she says. "I grew up with it. My
husband, James, accepted it. We live it." Judy explains that her husband
was informed before their marriage that she would be following her parents
lifestyle. "I've chosen Lance as my steady sex
partner," Judy offers. Lance, present during the interview, is 21, single,
black, a college student. He says that he just needs "no-strings,
noncommittal, clean sex" to keep him "concentrated through college."
Husband of Judy, James, 22, reports that the situation is satisfactory to
him as well. "Actually," he says, "I enjoy the competition very much. And
it keeps Judy happy, and that's my main concern. And, yes," James'
admits, "I do enjoy the facts that my wife turns on other guys; that they
can fuck her but not keep her. I believe that this is as safe and secure
as sex can truthfully get; I don't ever worry about my wife losing
interest in me, leaving me. That I can come home to a happy and contented
wife, rather than facing frustration at my front door, is important to me,
too. All of this keeps me at peace, attracted to my liberated wife and in
no need of affairs with other women.
James, like his father-in-law, prefers to remain monogamous to his
swinging wife. He finds so much enjoyment in Judy's alternative lifestyle
that he encourages his wife to attend lifestyle events, however. James, at
those events, would be the one entertaining guests with his fine sense of
humor while his wife enjoys the attention of as many willing males as
possible. Judy, a bit of an exhibitionist, prefers the rooms
with a view towards the action going on inside for her encounters. "I like
to have as many people as
possible watching me have sex," she says. To empathize this, Judy, at the
interview site, kisses her husband, James, then unzips Lance's pants,
places her hand inside them, moves it around rapidly, withdraws his cock,
strokes it openly, smiles at her husband and this writer...as if to
illustrate her point. "They (media, religion, instruction)," Judy goes on,
her small hand still stroking the large cock, "can condemn me for my
sexual freedom and preach to me about THIS (at this point she pushes Lance
down into a chair, pulls up her mini, mounts him and begins an open sex
act--husband, writer, her mother
and father looking on approvingly) but NOBODY's gonna distract me from my
pleasures..."
The dark cock of Lance is a sharp contrast to Judy's bushy blonde cunt
hair. "Understand," Judy's husband James says, intently watching his wife
riding the black cock of Lance, " We're promoting marriage first, sex
second. I think that point is important." Judy stops her act with Lance,
says, "I got married because I knew what I wanted: A great, understanding,
monogamous-to-me-husband (James) and a terrific extramarital sex life.
Rather than a malfunctional sex life filled with lies or frustration, I
choose to select both an understanding, accepting husband and a lifestyle
meant to satisfy my needs in a natural way. I had no
problem. Any woman can do it. I simply explained my beliefs to the guys.
They accepted. Life goes on.
"But without sexual frustration or fear of divorce..." Judy dismounts
Lance, walks over to a sofa, lays on
her back, puts one leg high on the wall, drapes the other one on the
floor. Lance understands. Within a minute he's fucking Judy in the
missionary position. Judy stops the action, gets on all fours, still on
the wide sofa, and says to Lance," It's impolite to block the view of the
guests." Judy was concerned that we
couldn't see the black cock driving into the blonde-haired cunt, the large
dark balls slapping against her young, firm ass. Lance is fucking her
doggie style now. Our view is much clearer. The black cock
continues to pump into the blonde pussy for almost 20 minutes. With three
rapid and hard thrusts,
Lance shoots a load of cum deep inside Judy, withdraws his prick and
stands up. Cum oozes out of the cunt, coats the blonde pussy hair with
whiteness. Judy rubs the cum into her cunt hair, sits facing
forward, Lance's still rock-hard cock right in her face. She puts her tiny
hand around the thick cock,
strokes the length of it a few times, looks at us and asks, "Isn't it
beautiful?" She buries her face into the curly black cock-hair. Long
blonde hair draped over the black cock does look like a natural thing.
After licking the huge balls for a few minutes, she uses one hand to cup
the balls, the other to continue stroking the cock. Still holding Lance's
balls with one hand, the other hand now wrapped around the base of
Lance's shaft, Judy smiles at us, moves forward and manages to get about 8
inches of the 10 inch cock
into her mouth. Judy is licking and sucking 8 inches of the black cock
while her right hand strokes the remaining 2 inches, the left hand cups
the huge balls. After about 10 minutes of sucking, licking and
stroking, Lance fires his cum into the mouth of Judy and backs away from
her, his cock finally becoming flaccid. Judy looks over our way. We see
cum dribbling out of the corners of her mouth. With fingers of her right
hand, she gathers up the excess cum and walks over to her husband, saying
"please lick them (fingers) clean." Her husband complies immediately. It's
apparent he likes this part very much.
James and Rob, husbands of the sexually free ladies, escort me to the
door. As I look back inside the house, Judy waves her right hand in a
good-bye to me. I wave back. I realize that this particular set of swing
circumstances--married wives solo-swinging, their husbands approving--does
not constitute the main body of the swing lifestyle (a minority within a
minority) but do believe that the practice deserves more attention.
(c) Greg Smith 1998
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